Twenty years ago, when I first visited India I encountered Indians that were very similar to my parents in many ways. India and Singapore (and about a quarter of the world’s land surface) were all once part of the British Empire. Of all the colonialists, the British were by far the best (at least in my opinion) but they were nonetheless colonialists. In other words, they were blatant exploiters of others. And probably the most powerful exploitation of all was that that on the human mind.
To maintain their control over the locals, they used military power and more importantly, psychological power. They brainwashed the locals to believe that since they were inferior to the Westerner, they were privileged to be “civilized” by them.
It is interesting to note that most Asian countries that were colonized fought for, and gained, their independence after World War II. As my father (who was a dedicated Anglophile) said: “It was only after we saw how the Japanese thrashed the British, that we realized that the Asian is not inferior to the Westerner!” Sad to say, in spite of this obvious lesson from the Japanese, the people of my father’s generation continued to suffer from an inferiority complex. This is the power of brain-washing and prejudice. Its scars often last till death.
When I first visited India in the mid 80’s, India had already gained its independence from the British for forty years but the scars of a brow-beaten colonial mentality were still evident. The people seemed to accept the fact that things could not change for the better because they were incapable of improving things. It seemed that everything that was of good quality (eg. railway stations, offices) was made by the British and everything that didn’t work was made by them!
On my recent trip to India, I noticed a totally different mind-set in the young educated Indians. Unlike their fathers who were trained to be clerks and workers for their colonial masters, they had received a good education and were confident and hopeful for their future. Many of these bright young Indians that I met were children of dirt poor farmers. I am confident that they will build a better India. And a better India means that 20% of the world will live in a better world.
We're all the same!
I write this blog not as one who is anti-colonial, which I am not. In fact, I’m thankful for what the British gave me – especially an English language education. But I write this to highlight two important lessons.
Firstly, that it is wrong to be prejudiced against people just because they are of a different race or religion. It is wrong to think that we are better than someone else because they are of a different race or religion. It is not only a lie but it breeds pride in self and hatred for others. Prejudice hinders us from knowing others and helping others. Too many people will not even visit another country because of the prejudices (aka lies) that they have been “brain-washed” with!
Secondly, there is great untapped potential in every human being – and our hope is that each one will be given the opportunity to fulfil his potential. Education often provides that door of opportunity! It did so for me and my Indian friends!
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A nursing school that came to know about Goducate’s community work has chosen the Goducate Learning Center in Mabakan, Calaun, to be a center for practical training for their students. Hence 10 nursing students spent January training the locals in basic health awareness and doing health screenings.
Training session
Some 30 people, mostly mothers, attended… Continue reading
A fortnight ago parents of the children attending the Goducate Learning Center in Lalao, Laguna, were brought together to attend a session with their children. The session, called Mama and Me, was intended to emphasize to the parents the importance of good communication with their children and of teaching their children and supervising them while they do their homework and assignments. For the children, the intention was to impress on… Continue reading
Thanks for writing this. As a person who born and raised in a colonized third world country, it took 23 years for me to get over my own prejudice against myself. I’m so thankful for people who are consistent in showing love in anyway that they could because it surely helped me break free from the bondage that I was in. Now, I’m ready and willing to do what I could and to do my best to make a difference in the lives of those who can’t help themselves.